Loneliness is an opportunity to see oneself, to define one’s own expectations and standards. The advantage of loneliness is that no one has any influence over us—the choice is entirely ours.
At times, this may bring uncertainty—are we making the right choice?
There are various situations in everyone’s life. We are alone, or we have a partner, we must take care of our parents, or we no longer have to, yet almost always, we have certain obligations.
We should always have responsibilities—even if only towards our pets.
The next question is: do we have enough strength?
Measure your strength against your ambitions. You may sink, but you can also cut off the weight that is dragging you down. The choice is yours alone. Remember that choice comes with responsibility—your responsibility for your own decisions.
We have learned to complain and blame everyone around us for our mistakes, without realizing, in our own self-importance, that we are the blacksmiths of our own fate and that everything depends on us.